Being negative takes less energy in the short term
I read a post that said being negative took more energy. At first I thought that that wasn't true until I started thinking about it more.
In the short term it really does take less energy. It's easy to do. To talk about. To put things off. To not do the right thing.
All of it's easier in the short term, but the long term is the difference.
To see yourself in the same spot. Hurting people. Not going anywhere. It all hurts!!!
So, taking the negative route, while being easy and taking less energy in the short term takes more energy in the long term.